eb's mind.

What do you think? Yes, you look at a luxurious car and go about thinking of the riches and beautiful lifestyle that comes with it. Big and expensive house, expensive furniture, expensive cars, and one nice LIFESTYLE.
Well, you may have heard all the rattling about luxury, as you attended seminars where speakers you hear from are 'RICH and POWERFUL' people. So you salivate when the string of thoughts flood your mind. You feel good.
Okay, wake up to reality. This is the facts you want to know, or you knew before you even thought about the changes you want to make in your, LIFESTYLE.
Facts One's ability to achieve is affected by his or her behavior. You can choose to be a person who refuse to acknowledge any new achievement you have made in life. Like me before, I always under-mined my own achievements, which is to make it through tertiary education.
In life, you must have done something, to feel better or sabotage yourself into belittling your self.
Next One's behaviors are controlled by their feelings. This point in time, I mean anytime, is the period which you are confronted by a situation. And the decision is made, by you, on what happens next.
What do you perceive, is in the mindset you have as your eyes send the image to your brain and you try to match it to a TEMPLATE. All these happen in seconds, or less.
Judgements Your feelings are created by your beliefs. So what was inserted into your mind at an early stage in life is very important.
Start with negativity, you see things, and do things which result in more negative outcomes. Change it, accept the new things in life, be wise in evaluation and YOUR actions.
Stanley Lai is a cancer survivor who achieved in an awkward way and lived on. He now writes articles to inspire others and help them to overcome challenges in life; and living in Singapore.
Not everything in life goes the way we want it to, we learn, and adapt to the changes or overcome challenges ahead with new strategies.
I learnt, with help from him!

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